How To Know If Your Spouse Is Cheating On You- 7 Signs


How to know if your spouse is cheating?

Love is the element that holds two different people together through all ups and downs. Every relationship indeed goes through challenging times, we all make mistakes, but remember that If your spouse is cheating on you, that’s NOT a mistake. Dishonesty can never be a mistake. It’s a choice.

I can truly understand how hard it must be to see that the person you love is not loyal to you. Sometimes, we love our partner so much that we overlook all their mistakes, but you should know that no one deserves a partner who cheats in a relationship. Your spouse is cheating on you because he doesn’t value you, your love, emotions, and feelings. Would you still want to live with him? No.

But, sometimes we get so busy with our responsibilities that we fail to recognize that the love has faded away from the relationship. It’s important to keep an eye on your partner and his activities when you observe things are changing between you two.

Here are some signs that could help you to see if your spouse is cheating on you or it’s just a misunderstanding. Because sometimes we overthink and end up losing our relationship. So, before taking any steps, you must first confirm your doubts.

 

1. Hiding His Phone From You

How To Know If Your Spouse Is Cheating

If you think your spouse is cheating on you, observe how he reacts when you touch his phone or laptop. If he likes someone else, that person would be on his contact list or Facebook or any other social media application. He will try to hide his stuff from you, so that you may never find this out.

It is also possible that he may add a password on his phone or specific applications. It can be a sign that he is playing you, or he is involved in some suspicious activities.

But, there are chances that he might be sharing his relationship problems with his friend, or he might be planning a surprise for you two. That’s why he might not want you to use his phone. So, don’t panic in the beginning. Take your time and observe things well. Sometimes, we create scenarios in our minds that have nothing to do with reality. You first have to confirm your doubts and then question him.

 

2. Getting Nervous Around You

If your partner is suddenly angry with you over pointless things, know that something is going wrong in his life. Sometimes, we get nervous around people because we try to hide our fears and insecurities. If he avoids to talk to you or make eye contact with you, that means someone else is trying to take your place in his life.

It is the same as when you do wrong with someone, you don’t want to face them. It is because you get afraid that your secret might get disclosed in front of that person. Keep a check on your spouse, his body language, or how he behaves when you try to talk to him.

 

3. Showing No Interest In You

How To Know If Your Spouse Is Cheating

If your spouse is cheating on you, he will start to distance himself from you. He will stop telling you his details like, what he did the entire day, what he had in lunch, or how was the day at work. Not only this, but he’ll not be interested to know about you too. Even if you would like to share with him things, he’ll not show you any interest. You will feel like he doesn’t care about you.

Lacking interest in you alone doesn’t mean your spouse is cheating, but it can be a good indicator if a few things are changing in his life.

If you have been in a relationship with him for a long time, and he was not like this from the beginning, then you need to pay attention. 

 

4. Spending More Time Without You

If someone else is taking your place in your spouse’s life, he will ignore you. You will observe that you two are not spending some quality time together. He might be on his phone most of the time or outside the home. If you see a sudden change in his behavior, don’t overlook this shift. Try to find out what’s the reason behind this. Ask him if everything is fine. But, most probably, he will not let you know because he’s a cheater. If you feel he’s avoiding you for no reason, start to keep an eye on him. Figure out what’s going on in his life. Is he making some new friends? What’s the reason for this sudden change? 

Remember, you don’t have to live with a cheater. It must not be easy for you to see you have given so many years to a cheater, but at least you can save yourself from further damage.

5. Paying More Attention To His Appearance Than Usual

If your spouse is paying more attention to his looks and style than usual, then it can be a sign that he is trying to impress someone. It might be possible that he’s doing it for your attention, but if he is dressing up for going out only, then it means that it’s not for you.

Another way to confirm is, observe how he reacts when he gets home. If, after coming home, your significant other jumps right into the shower, he may be washing away any evidence of cheating. 

There’s nothing wrong if someone wants to dress up well, but most of the time, when we want to catch the eye of someone, we try to change ourselves, our style, or habits. Focus on him and the behavioral changes that you are watching.

 

6. Change In Attitude

How To Know If Your Spouse Is Cheating

If your spouse is cheating on you, he will become more critical of you. Because now he will be more interested in someone else. He’ll pick up fights with you over small things, not give you importance, or make you feel ignored. 

This sudden change in attitude can be a sign that he’s no more interested in the relationship with you. He’ll lie to you for his activities often. Like, he may tell you that he’s at work, but you would get to know that he was somewhere else the whole time. And, when you are going to ask him about it, he couldn’t be able to satisfy you with his response. He is going to be confused around you due to the fear that you may catch him.

 

7. Communication Gap Between You Two

A Communication gap is enough to ruin relationships. If you feel like he has no time for you, then your relationship is at risk. It may be a sign that your spouse is involved with some other person, and that’s why he’s not willing to be connected with you in any way. 

As the communication gap gets bigger, it makes space for others to enter and take your place. If your spouse is cheating on you, he will stop discussing things with you, telling you his small or big details, sharing thoughts with you, or caring about you. Sometimes, we feel tired and exhausted due to work or any other thing, and we don’t like to communicate. But, if it’s happening regularly then, you need to check what’s the reason behind it. 

 


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JASMINE

Hi! I'm Jasmine- blogger, engineer, and creator of PositiveSide! Blogging is my passion. I love to write and share my ideas with others so they may take benefit from my experiences. I create articles in a way that is not solely research-based because it becomes boring sometimes. I like to include things that I observe or experience to make it a little creative for my readers.

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